If you're recently engaged, you might be thinking about your next jewellery purchase: wedding rings. Choosing wedding rings doesn't need to be difficult. Our guide explains the benefits of buying his and hers wedding rings, outlines the different types available, and helps you make an informed choice.
Why choose his and hers wedding rings?
Wedding preparation involves countless decisions. Choosing rings as a pair helps you make one cohesive choice rather than selecting two separate ones. It can also be a more enjoyable experience as you get to share the buying process together, with both of you walking away with a ring you'll cherish forever.
Whilst couples often have different preferences when it comes to ring width, weight, comfort and styling, choosing a his and hers set allows each partner to wear something that suits them whilst still maintaining a connection through certain design elements or materials that tie both rings together.
Types of his and hers wedding rings
Identical matching sets
One option is to choose two identical wedding rings with the same metal, finish and detailing on both pieces. The only variation between the two would be sizing. They make the best choice for couples who want the strongest statement of unity and tend to feature simpler, understated designs that translate well across different hand sizes.
Adjusted matching sets
Another option is to choose identical rings with slightly different dimensions to match the wearer. For example, she might suit a 3mm slim band, whilst he may prefer a 5mm band. Other than the width and ring size, all other elements will be identical. This is a good choice for couples who want matching rings but a clearer difference between masculine and feminine looks.
Coordinated sets
A coordinated set matches less literally but still has key elements that tie both rings together thematically. For example, both rings could be the same metal, with a plain band for the groom and a diamond-set version for the bride.
Contrasting sets
A contrasting set intentionally plays with difference. It could consist of one yellow gold ring and one platinum ring, or one shiny, polished finish and one with a matte finish. The contrast becomes the main focal point between the two rings.
Why buy His and hers wedding rings together?
Buying both his and hers wedding rings from the same jeweller makes for a more cohesive look. When you choose two rings from the same retailer, the proportions, weights and details all work together to ensure they share the same level of craftsmanship and finishing techniques.
There are also considerable financial benefits to buying his and hers wedding rings together. You can potentially save on shipping costs and time with a single point of aftercare. Sizing adjustments, polishing, rhodium re-plating and stone tightening can easily happen on the same schedule, working with the same jeweller who knows your rings and your history.
Do his and hers wedding rings have to match?
The simple answer is no. There's no traditional rule requiring your rings to match, and modern couples increasingly choose pairs that reflect their individual styles rather than forcing an identical set.
Whilst matching rings create the strongest uniform look and a statement of unity, comfort, personal style and individual preference matter far more than the need to match. Forcing a match can result in a ring neither partner truly loves. Instead, considering a coordinated option rather than identical rings can work better, allowing each partner to express themselves without sacrificing that feeling of closeness.
Another thing to consider is how the wedding ring coordinates with the engagement ring for the bride. This makes an excellent starting point for shopping for a wedding ring, with the groom's ring complementing and coordinating with the bride's stack of rings.
Why choose Diamond Quarter
Our expert team has years of valuable experience, our knowledgeable team can help find the pair of wedding rings for your wedding.
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